How to enjoy your own company

Thursday, 19 October 2017

enjoy your own company
I'm a people person, always have been and thought I always would be. It wasn't until I moved to the other side of the world away from family and friends to pursue a new career that I finally figured out that I'm actually quite cool and can enjoy spending time with... myself.

I've been pretty lucky with my network in England from growing up in Stockton, moving to Billingham, Uni in Newcastle and a job that allowed me to meet people from all over the country. In 2014 Michael and I went on a huge trip around Australia, staying in numerous hostels up and down the country and meeting people from all walks of life. I now have friends in different parts of the world and its great!

We made the decision to move to Melbourne earlier this year and have been here for just over a month. Most of the 'backpacking friends' that I made a few years ago have since moved on/gone back home. I have 1 Aussie mate who I worked with in Melbourne who I have not stopped pestering since I got here. I'm needy. I need friends. I need attention. So at least I thought.

I was definitely out of my comfort zone for a while and I'm still adjusting now. Before I knew it rather than human interaction 24/7 I was alone, working in my amazing home office with the most gorgeous views of Port Melbourne but still alone. At first I was counting down the hours until Michael returned from work just so I could talk his head off but now I'm starting to enjoy my me time.

It's all about adjusting and now I have my routine I'm loving life again. Change can be hard but you have to adapt. I now have a daily routine and feel like I'm where I want to be. I have a great job which I'm loving, I manage my own time and I do what I want to do.

No more Lonely Luce!

To celebrate commiserate my fast approaching 25th birthday...

Heres 25 tips of how to hang out with yourself... and enjoy it!

1. Have a coffee

- Ahh coffee my one true love. Give me a coffee over human interaction any day

2. Have a nana nap

- You know that you're a grown up when a nap is no longer punishment but more of a reward

3. Buy a magazine 

- Put down the iPad and go old school. Flicking through a fresh magazine is nostalgia at its best.

4. Learn a language

- Disfrutar! Genieten! Kufurahia!
No I didn't just google translate 'enjoy' into Spanish, Dutch and Swahili

5. Go shopping

- Take the maximum number of items in the changing room and take as long as you want

6. Walk along the beach 

- If you're lucky enough to live near a beach, take a stroll and look out at the rippling waves far into the distance. If not your local park is just as serene.

7. Go to the cinema

- It's dark, loud, you need to concentrate so go on your own!

8. Go to the gym

- Sweat it out at the gym and feel invigorated

9. Go for a swim

- Swimming is the best exercise to do on your own. Just you, your breathing and the water.

10. Go for a bike ride

- You don't realise how fun it is to 'ding' at pedestrians who SHOULD'NT WALK ON THE CYCLE PATHS AND YES I WILL DING AT YOU YOU DINGBAT

11. Volunteer to walk a dog

- They don't call them a (wo)mans best friend for nothing

12. Go to a cat cafe

- A cafe! With cats! I'm feline like I know what I'm doing this afternoon

13. Go to a museum

- Indulge in some rich history at your local musuem

14. Take your camera and go for a stroll

- People watch anywhere and everywhere and snap what you see

15. Get lost in your own city

16. Go to an art gallery

- Wander around an art gallery on your own taking it all in

17. Get a massage

- Loosen the tensions of the day and get prepped for your next adventure

18. Write in a journal (or blog)

- This is my happy place, my stress releaser, my hobby I suppose

19. Dine in an open kitchen

- Watch your eggs flipped in a way you never flippin imagined

20. Try a random act of kindness

- It only counts if you don't tweet or gram it though

21. Clean your house

- I haven't gone crazy, it's actually a great sense of achievement and you'll relax more in a clean environment. Oh god when did I turn into my mother!

22. Dance like you mean it

- and like no one's watching... because they're not!

23. Sing your heart out

- unleash your inner Beyonce - even if you're terrible like me

24. Get stuck into a book

- I can sometimes get lost for hours in my own little world inside a book

25. Strip

- Get nakey, it feels liberating

There's a difference between being alone and being lonely - so go hang out with yourself today!

Love Luce x


  1. I really enjoy hanging out with myself, it's always so fun. I love going to the art gallery or getting stuck in a good book. I love the idea of strolling along the beach, if only there was a beach nearby. Great post! xx
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